We all know that prostitution and things of that nature have been around for years so I'm not even going to go into that part I mean I'm a retired gigolo I know the game is real lol! What I want to talk about is the men who spend money because of lack of imagination. See a man with imagination who is actually thoughtful can take you out with out really spending a dime. Take you on a walk but bring conversation that makes you forget that you didn't eat yet. A man with money sometimes loses that talk game and they rely only on what their money can buy. No different than a female who has a man sleeping in her bed who does nothing but sleep in her bed. She feels happy that she has a man at home and he is happy to stay as long as she pays for whatever he would like to have.
In a perfect world we would say nah that's just being nice when I pay for dinner that is what a man is supposed to do. The problem with that is your intentions. Your not paying for the meal of a woman your not attracted to, your on a date because you want something from this woman. So do you want love because if so then you might not be paying for sex, but if your intent is to have a cut buddy or a one night stand you are paying for sex.
My homegirl Dee said in a post that "Some Guys will take you Out to Dinner n a Movie n Expect to get Laid,,, So why is it a Problem if I take Him Out to Dinner n a Movie,,, n Expect to get My Mortgage Paid!" hmmm she might have a point, but notice I said might lol! But lets jump into this should she really expect to be compensated for taking this man out and should this man believe he should be compensated in the same right? This is where the none existent double standard appears. Most people feel entitled in some type of way to the opposite sex. They feel something should be given first date a kiss, or first date expensive restaurant steak and lobster. We all have our expectations, but in the end are we paying for sex with our actions, money or both and when are we not paying for sex?
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